Pray for Vincent Lambert!

France’s top court decides brain-damaged Vincent Lambert must die

I have been following this heartbreaking story for about ten years and now it looks like – barring a miracle – poor disabled man, Vincent Lambert, will be dehydrated to death.

Legally, this is the end of the road. The state wants him dead, so he must die. End of story.

Please pray for a miracle!

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“Don’t want an abortion…

don’t have one!” They mocked.

Uh-huh

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Church scandals

Unfortunately, I don’t really have the time to write about this appalling topic, but I just wanted to acknowledge the dire situation among the hierarchy of the Catholic Church. As I have said before, the sex scandals have occurred because evil men have infiltrated the Church, mainly homosexuals, Freemasons and communists. They entered the Church deliberately to destroy it. There is nothing within the Catholic Faith which leads people to rape anyone, much less children.

Perhaps the blog post which best sums up my feelings on this was this, by Mundabor.

As for me, I will not let up on these cretinous Churchmen, and will continue to give them a hard time on Twitter.

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The Sacred Cow of Annulment

Since Pope Francis’s bombshell letter “Amoris Laetitia” this following blog post is probably rather superfluous, but since I couldn’t get anyone else to publish it at the time of writing a few years ago, I simply decided to put it on my blog. The mentality has simply changed for the worse, but I still think the piece has some value.

There is a grave problem of the collapse of marriage in the West, even among the Catholics who are considered to be very committed Catholics – those who have a strong faith in and love for both Christ and His Church. No marriage is safe, and unfortunately, if you think yours is the exception, you have no reason to believe that. This is true even if you and your spouse “don’t believe in” divorce.

It is simply not possible to discuss this topic without causing pain to someone somewhere, but, in order to obtain justice, it must be discussed.

Divorce is bad for children; its effects are well-known, but annulments add to the injury. Unfortunately, it is as though the topic of Annulment is a Sacred Cow, which cannot be questioned at all.

This is not good enough in a society where the divorce rate is so high as to make marriage itself a laughing stock, where so many children are suffering terribly and are effectively told to “suck it up” and where even committed Catholics are seeing too many of their own marriages and families destroyed.

In practice, although annulment is not divorce, it has become Catholic divorce. We know that in most cases, people can marry for a second time in the Catholic Church with just a bit of extra paperwork. This is currently how it is in practice.

There are a lot of Catholics who “remarry” outside the Church and some of these are very active in their parish. These people are living in a state of permanent adultery. I do not recognise such “marriages” in my own extended family.

There are at least three fundamental problems with declarations of nullity as they are being granted today in American diocesan tribunals:

One: Annulment does not make divorce suddenly good for children. Annulment does not take away the psychological damage to children. Parents need to put their children’s real needs ahead of their own romantic desires.

Two: It is sometimes alleged by people who have succeeded in their petition for an annulment, that the annulment process was “healing.” The skeptic in me wonders if the respondent and the children also found annulment to be “healing.” I don’t see a lot of healing. I hear a fair amount of carping about the “ex”-spouse.

Three: One of the most damaging things in this shocking crisis is that many Catholics are now suggesting that many or even most marriages in the Catholic Church are probably invalid. Cardinal Edward M. Egan, former judge of the Sacred Roman Rota, describes the situation as follows:

“There are, you see, in the real world no men (and neither are there any women), who know what marriage is, are not insane, can sufficiently consider the wisdom of marrying, marry freely, are capable of the marriage act and capable too of honoring their commitment to the permanence and exclusivity of marriage, but who are are somehow unable to relate to a spouse except in intercourse. Such beings can be imagined, like unicorns or mermaids, but they do not exist.” (Edward Egan, “The nullity of marriage for reason of incapacity to fulfill the essential obligations of marriage.” Ephemerides Iuris Canonici, Rome, 1984.)

Here is a hypothetical, but very realistic scenario. A man tells his wife one day, that he no longer loves her and wants a divorce. She is devastated. She knows he has been unhappy, but any attempts on her part to discover the problem and address it has failed. Nevertheless, she was not expecting this, since all marriages have their rough times. She goes to see her pastor for some help. He is initially helpful, but after the husband gets his quickie divorce and fake-marries another woman outside of the Church the pastor counsels the man to petition for an annulment. How would you feel, if you were this woman? If we are going to use feelings of the parties as emotional ammunition in our debate, why must it all be one-sided? Such petitioners as these are not the only ones with feelings. The pastor here was derelict in his duty. He should have confronted the man early on and sought reconciliation for the couple and then informed the man that to seek a new romance would be a mortal sin.

Incidentally, there are some parishes where the singles social group welcomes divorced and even separated people! What kind of fresh wickedness is this? The Church does not recognise civil divorce! Separated persons are still legally married and married in the eyes of the Church.

Finally, let me show, by means of a true story, how I view the whole crisis. I have a former friend, whom I am still very fond of, who allowed her heart to become very hard against her husband. She has never accused him of violence or any other activity which could warrant a separation. After many years of complaints against him for minor faults, she eventually left him, divorced and then petitioned for an annulment, which was granted. Now, at the time of their marriage, I cannot perceive that there was any impediment. It was a first marriage for both, they were both baptised Catholics and married in the Church. The only possible grounds would be a liberal interpretation of c.1095. This looks very bad to me. She has put her own feelings ahead of the real needs of their four children. Her husband is deeply unhappy about it.

I believe that apostasy and divorce are even greater evils in our day than the horrendous abortion rate and are a large cause of it. The Church in the USA and other English-speaking nations is making an evil situation far worse, by refusing to remain faithful in practice to the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. Given what Our Lord went through for the sake of His Bride, I wouldn’t want to be in the shoes of anyone who commits injustices against this Sacrament.

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D*I*V*O*R*C*E

This little Twitter exchange today between myself and Hilary White prompted me to start writing some more about the problem of divorce, specifically as it affects Catholics.

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Divorce has horrified me all my life, along with a few other things, such as contraception, and physical immodesty in women. When I was very young indeed – about 5 – I first learned that parents could voluntarily stop having more babies. I didn’t know how or why, but such a thing was horrifying to me. All of these things are an attack upon motherhood, and ever since I could remember (and my memory goes back to two years of age) I wanted to be a mother.

I won’t be all confessional here (as in confessing my sins) but I was neither a deeply religious child, nor always as pure of heart as I was in my earliest childhood. But even at my worst, the old hatred of immodesty, contraception, and divorce remained. Inserted here now is the obligatory sentence about not hating the *people* who do these things. Any comments received that imply I hate people etc will never see the light of day in my comment section. I am highly dictatorial on my blog.

Holy Mother Church teaches that marriage cannot be dissolved. This is true, even though it now seems that “the Church”, via Pope Francis and others, are obviously trying to assault all the Church’s own teachings all at once. That’s another story, but in brief, we must remember that Christ is the Head of His Church, and His Mother, and the Angels and Saints are her holy members. The cretinous men currently running the institutional Church on earth can’t alter anything officially, but they can do a lot of damage to souls – at which they are very skilled.

I’m happy to report that my own childhood was ridiculously happy, and my elders were basically sensible, competent, and sane people, but even they were not immune from the vicious heresies of our time, and which caused some of them grief in their middle age onward.

My elders, born between the years 1907 and 1947, had pretty mushy views on divorce. This was due to two main reasons. One of my elders was a non-practicing Anglican, so he was not formed by the Catholic view of Sacramental Marriage anyhow, but my Catholic elders had lived in a society which had had legal divorce since about the mid nineteenth century. Divorces were still not common, however. No-fault divorce did not arrive in Australia until 1975, after which this disgusting condition – like a hideous disease – spread more virulently. This fairly putrid article gives you a bit of an overview of divorce in Australian law.

It is always the hard cases that push the boundaries. (That’s why I’m sick of them). First, your extended family knows nobody with a divorce, and the next thing you know it’s one here and one there. In the end, two of my Nan’s eight siblings were divorced, and prior to that, one of my Anglican ancestors was sued for divorce after his second marriage fell apart. His first wife had died quite young – probably in childbirth. None of these divorcees ever “remarried.”

The younger generation of elders – my parents’ generation (born between 1938 and 1947) had divorces all over the place and often “remarriages” or shack ups. One of these occurred in the early 70s, the others in the late 80s. Broadening out into wider society: at this time there was a veritable explosion of divorces as the kids finished school and the no-fault time bomb went off. Speaking of the kids – what were we doing? Wearing pastel and losing our virginity, mostly. Our generation’s kids are mostly unbaptised, and many of us never bothered to marry at all. (I am one of the few to buck the trend). Some of our generation’s kids are IVF. These kids don’t even know if they’re boys or girls and will no doubt kill themselves at a greater rate than ever before. You get the idea.

Incidentally, one of the demons responsible for these divorces was almost certainly the “noonday devil” (Psalm 90:6, Douay-Rheims) which Fr Ripperger says is the demon of mid-life crisis.

I cannot think of a single situation which requires a legal divorce. Ironically, unlike marriage, divorce really IS “just a piece of paper.” It’s quite grimly funny, if you think about it.

But now where are we? Well, as I said in my tweet, things are so bad that even among traditional Catholics, people can be very cavalier about divorce. I know veil-wearing, homeschooling, Latin Mass-going-women, who chat amiably about annulments because some marriage or other is going through a rough patch, or someone was abandoned etc. I don’t want to pick on trads, because it’s getting really old (and I am a trad), but this situation I find genuinely alarming. I don’t have any statistics on this, however.

My argument is that if divorce is permitted in law at all, that this will erode the Faith of Catholics regarding the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony and that this is my best argument in favour of a Catholic Confessional State, and against the Secular State, which I consider to be an Abomination.

There are other problems too – such as Catholics marrying outside the Church. This also creates many family problems. The only immediate antidote to this is for parents to lay down the law with their children early on e.g. “If you marry outside the Church, I am not coming to the wedding and will consider your relationship to be mere concubinage.” I have already informed my children of this, and I will back it up with action, because that’s one important way to stop the rot: we need to Make Catholics Great Again.

Every Catholic MUST wrestle with this issue. You’ll all get a dodgy “wedding” invitation at some point. Are you going to contend with your spouse about not going, and not permitting your children to go? Are you going to withstand your engaged daughter’s manipulative hysterics about “ruining” her “wedding” when you tell her you won’t attend? Are you prepared to say to your children, siblings, parents and other wayward Catholic family members “Look! We were all brought up Catholic and I’m trying to be a good Catholic. WHY ARE YOU MAKING *MY* LIFE SO DIFFICULT?” Because that’s what is happening. In families throughout the entire Civilisation Formerly Known As Christendom, family members who are more hedonistic/selfish than their other family members are driving that wedge further and further towards insanity. All of us will have to find a hill to die on. And when you do stand up to these demonically oppressed people (people you love) they will be vicious. As I discovered, you have to learn not to care about their hysteria.

I think I will write a series about this topic, if it’s of interest.

 

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Integralists (TM) Are Evil!

What is integralism?

Dunno, and I care less, but it’s been a topic on #CatholicTwitter lately. As far as I can tell it’s what some people call that part of Church teaching (disputed by some) known as the Social Kingship of Christ.

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The ins and outs of the degree of authority regarding this set of teachings is simply “above my pay grade” and I don’t have the time or energy to study further. I’m a home schooling housewife, not a theologian.

I have laboured here and there over about 12 years to understand this set of teachings – the Social Kingship of Christ – as well as I reasonably can, given my external limitations, so I’m slightly resentful about committed Catholics who seem to blow this off.

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I wrote in a piece a while back, what I thought was a reasonable blog post, about the idea, which I think is true, and which I think I had explained pretty well, that the state is always confessional (update: a confessional state means having a particular religion as the religion of the state). Even when, for that historically very brief moment the state seemed to be neutral, it never really was. For example, it has been a long time that Catholics have suffered under wicked divorce laws.

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Indeed, in any state which recognises civil divorce at all, abandoned Catholic spouses are denied justice, both in law, and socially. Such a state is NOT neutral. It is whatever it is – protestant, or some other weird hybrid thing. And in this state, Catholics are at a disadvantage, particularly with the divorce laws. These laws enable all manner of family strife – and legally impose or sanction it at the expense of the innocent – and actively destroy the religious beliefs of Catholics regarding marriage. Nor does it take very long – in one generation everything can change. How nice and neutral!

I’d be very happy never to discuss the topic, except that it does seem to me to be one of those things which some potential converts will have to at least navigate at some point. It could be a block to conversion, and wishing it away won’t do anything, so I have endeavoured to explain it to others as well as I can.

One of the reasons it seems to touch a nerve is that pragmatists seem to think we all have some kind of plan to actually abolish Sunday trading, for example, in spite of such a policy having (allegedly) only 1% of popular support.

No. I can’t answer for other integralists (if that’s what I am) but for me it’s important to know what a just society looks like – in order to evaluate current laws etc. Whether we can change *anything* is another matter. So far, we can’t even prevent millions of babies being slaughtered in the womb, so the disgrace of Sunday trading is not high on my own list of preferred reforms.

Anti-integralists believe we should do the best with the system we have. In fact, I agree with them there, because it’s not practical to do otherwise. But discussions about whether or not certain policies are a help or hindrance to virtue are extremely important, imo. And that’s the value of discussion the Social Kingship of Christ.

Secular society is not neutral, whatever else it is.

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I need a drink

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Garden Update

Just a brief post with some newer garden photos.

Top left: the wisteria is growing nicely. Will need a bigger stake soon. It is of course a vine, but it can be grown into a small tree with careful training.

Top middle: The day was overcast and it was towards dusk. Even so the grass is looking a very deep green, and I got rid of the clover successfully. In fact, I liked the clover, but I know the Evil HOA won’t like it.

The other photos are some of the flowers I grew from seed. Some didn’t survive the transplanting, but never mind. When my foot gets better I will take some photos of my propagated succulents. 😀

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